THINGS TO DO WHEN SOMEONE HAS YOUR INAPPROPRIATE PHOTOS

 

Photographs are the pause button of any beautiful moment. Everybody loves to store or capture their best moments of life. And morning of teenagers starts by clicking and uploading of snaps on social media. And why not its so fascinating enough. But what happens if these photographs will reach to everyone by single click. And if you don’t give permission to this. Your beautiful dream get converted into an horrible nightmare. Nothing will be dangerous than that for anybody. Is’nt it?

Nowadays among teenagers it has become a very common thing to click someone’s  personal photographs just for fun sake beside the fact that how much private moments they are capturing. Sometimes even the particular person don’t have knowledge of that fact. It comes to him/her with a horrible nightmare. And if I talk about estimates about 80 percent peoples are known to that person who do this mishap. Whether it may be her love interest , friends or any other outsider. And there is also one more interesting fact is that victims of this are mostly girls.

And there is no particular reason for that . we cant blame her by saying that she had not taken care of or she had blindly trusted someone. That’s why I just want to say a little thing to those who blame without having sufficient knowledge that it can happen with any person. Because evil minded people are present every where . even if someone is very cautious and attentive after that he may be struck in the situation.

So till here I had explained you the problem now just quickly come on the solutions . now question arises if there is someone in that particular situation like any person having your person or inappropriate photographs and blackmailing you then what steps you can take?

So you had to simply do the following steps:

DO NOT PANIC and ACT SMARTLY:

Sometimes it happens that we heard something horrible and we god stressed and in a panic movement. So firstly calm yourself otherwise you cant able to think rightly.

Now just talk to that particular person and try to find what he wants actually from you and why he is doing so. Start call recording in your cell phone and get a proof of his talks.

Next just inform  your near ones whom you trust most friends or family members. No one is trustable then parents if I suggest you. But don’t keep everything with yourself I just want to say otherwise you cant able to reach on a solution.

You don’t need to worry because

 it’s a criminal offence under law to have some ones  private information ,photographs , videos without his /her permission. And he can be punishable under section 509 of ipc.

having physical relations with someone is not a crime.

Its not your fault that you had trusted someone.

That particular person is completely responsible for his actions.

DO NOT TAKE WRONG STEPS:

Guys I know it’s very difficult to understand that person’s situation who is facing that issue. We just advice but can’t feel in what type of situation he or she is. But some people got afraid to that extent that they take suicidal steps. Suicide is not a solution of any problem  and by taking this step you will prove yourself coward. I know its very hard and complex to deal but don’t do this.  Life is very precious just remember always. If you are thinking that if photos were published you will be defamed then I want to tell you that you are not wrong any where . you are not faulty . and if this happens then  you can recover from that. It will take sometime but at last everything will be alright. But if you kill yourself then it ill ruin everything you can’t able to be back never and ever.

DO NOT REACT IN HURRY:

It may be possible that the accused person will try to blackmail you and forcefully make you to fulfill his unreasonable demands either monetary or physical .  but you don’t need to fulfill them . Don’t get afraid that he will post your private information on social media. Once you caught in his cobweb then you will never come out of it even if you try hard. He will use your fear as his biggest strength.

CALL POLICE:    

Just report that crime in your nearest police even if he is forcing you not to complain . because police will help you better . or if you are in some emergency problem then dial their number in your mobile.

You can also seek help from women helpline number or judicial bodies. Be clear to them and tell the truth and real facts.

TAKE LEGAL HELP:

Many legal bodies offer free legal aids services to women. If any such incident happens with any women  then they will provide you legal services. In india there is  LAWKARO FREE LEGAL ADVICE AND ASSISTANCE.

THEIR WHATSAPP : 97737027270

WEBSITE : WWW.lawkaro.com

Act smartly:

I know we don’t have any control on the situations  but if just following some smart steps you can deviate that problem. Because prevention is always better than cure.

·        -  Don’t have blind faith on any body . no matter how much important he or she is.

·         -  Always make smart investigation. If you are visiting to some private space or some hotels  or even any changing room of shopping malls then take due care that there is any camera or recorder has not been inserted. You can check it through  hidden camera  detector  app in your mobile phone.

·         - Always act wisely.

·         - Don’t share your photographs with strangers . because it may possible that they may edit it it for their benefit.

·         - Don’t give your mobile phone to anyone if there is some personal data in it. If you give then take care what he is checking.

·         - Don’t give permission if your boyfriend insisting you to record personal moments.