Hi, I'm Osin Bhardwaj I am 21 Years Old. I want to raise one of the most sensitive topic about girls. That is freedom to wear clothes of their choice.
Sbhi ko pta h kpde hmari basic needs mai ate hai. But kya ho agr vhi ek meter kapda kisi ladki ki character ko judge krne lag jaye. Jitna jyada kpda hamne pehan rkha ho utna hi acha hamara character. Agr ap India ke us typical area ka hissa h Jaha ek Time ke bad kisi ldki ko pressurize kia jata hai ki ap decent kapde phnkr rho, gle m duptta dalkr bahr jao to ap meri bat smjhenge. But in decent kpdo se unka kya mtlb y vo kbhi kisi ldke ko kyo nhi smjhate sirf kisi women ya ldki ko hi kyo sikhaya jata h?
DON'T JUDGE A GIRL BY HER CLOTHES :-
Jb hr ldke ko apni psnd k kpde phne ka right chahe vo short ho ya full ho . Kya koi ladka even ek single t-shirt phnne se phle ye sochta h ki log mere bare m kya sochenge . I think no one kyoki vo care hi nhi krte ki log kya sochenge or asa isliye h kyoki society unko judge bhi nhi krti . Kuch log soch rhe honge m bhot typical old fashioned bate krrhihu but I m really srry guys aj bhi hm sb vhi typical mentality vali society ka part h. Seriously I'm not joking . Aj bhi jb koi ldki dressup hoti h uske mind m sbse phla question yhi ata h ki kya is kpde se koi muje beshrm, characterless jse words se to nhi bulaega. Use bchpn se sikhaya jata h jyada tyar hoke mt jao koi glt sochega , gle m duptta dalkr rho , sleevless mt phno , jeans mt dalo or y sb bate society nhi uski apni family use sikhati h . Body to sbki same hoti h to sirf ldkiyo k liye asi mentality kyo ? Koi nhi sochta y sb bate uske innocent mind pr kya effect dalti h . Isn't she frustrated?
RAPE VICTIMS WORE SHORT CLOTHES :-
Ek quote h don't judge h book by it's cover but it's very funny that society used to judge a woman by a piece of cloth. Jb kisi ldki k sath rape hota h to usko justice dilana to dur usko shara dene ki bjae uske character pr ungli uthane lg jate h . Or fir ek soch samne ati h isne chote kpde phn rkhe the isliye asa hua . Really but agr m bolu ki according to research maximum rape cases un ldkiyo k sath hue jinhone suit salwar ya saree full clothes Dale hue the . Ab society kya bolegi y kpde to descent h apke according . Agr koi tv actress short kpde dalti h hm usko bde shok se dekhte h but agr vhi kpde koi or dale to vo kharab h . Kharab vo ya uske kpde nhi apki mentality h . Use apne kpde change krne ki koi jarurat nhi h apko apna nazariya badlne ki jarurat h .
ALL PERSONS ARE NOT SAME :-
My nhi bolrhi ki sb kpde ache hote h but hr kpde ko phnne ki shi jgh hoti h . Because kapde apki maryada ko bhi define krte h . Lekin unhe phnne valo ko glt na smjhe . Agr society ko koi restriction lgani h to sb k liye same lgae sirf girls k liye nhi. Agr koi ldki apki psnd k kpde nhi phnti then you don't have right to force her . Or kyo phne afterall sbhi ko apni freedom se jeene ka right h . Ap koi nhi ho jo uske character pr ya us pr ungli uthao.
Really Heart touching
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