I know to write Blog on that issue is a thing of stupidity for some people and even some person may once laugh to read that topic. But guys may be it's a serious and genuine issue for those who face it every day. So here this blog will provide you an ultimate solution for you if you are facing or came to know with that. In simple words I'm saying that if you are in love with any person whether girl guy or boy guy but you are in a great dilemma that how to say that to him/her. How to express your feelings before your love? Then you are on the right place . You just had to read that blog till the end. And I will assure you that it really works not 100 percent but 99.9 percent. So here are some tips that how can you make agree someone to be your love partner:
-Spend time:
It is said that time is so much powerful. It has power to change someone's conditions. So use it as a helping hand. Spend time with the person for whom you have feelings. That more time you will spend with him, the much closer you will with him. Because when we spent time with someone things got automatically changed. All goes well. And it may be possible that he will also feel same feelings for you. You can spent time by watching movie, by playing game, shopping, drive, lunch or dinner, amusement place, short trips, learning same things etc.
-Gifts:
Gifts are a way to connect with some personally . When we give gift to someone it makes him to feel happy and joyful. That person also feel so grateful while accepting that present . Thus You can also give some special and memorable gifts that are not so precious but made with love and give a personal touch. That will help that person to feel special. Customized gifts and cards is a good option or you can also give handmade things.
-Go for a date:
Going for a sweet date is also a good option to spend quality time with your love interest. And it can also be proved as a good chance to express your feelings before him/her.
-Make him/her to feel special:
When you make someone your special person it automatically generates a sense of belongingness and emotional connectivity in other person's heart. So when you feel something for any person just make him/her to believe that he is so much special for you. Do all possible efforts to make him feel something for you.
-Understandability:
Understanding someone is so much difficult thing. Many people live together from a long period but even then they can't able to develop understandability between them. If you develop a good understanding with him it means you have succeed up to some extent. So understand his/her every single issues and problems. Understand pain and grief if he/she facing. Because it is said by a philosopher that if you want to know or understand someone then firstly understand pain behind his silence. If you are succeed in that then it's sure that he may fell in love with you.
-Provide emotional support:
In good times everyone wants to be with us but the real and true neurons are those who hold your hands when you are alone or lonely. Who supports you when no one wants to support you. Exactly the same person always memorize that emotional support that anyone provides him in his grief. Thus you can act as a support system for your love. That shouldn't be temporary it should be for lifetime. Make him/her realise that you are with him always and forever whether situation is bad or worse. You can't leave him in any trouble and hardships of life.
-Be with him/her in time of need:
Ever had you drink water when you are not thirsty or ever had you taken medicine when you are not ill. As like that we need someone to help us when we are in trouble. Thus if you love someone but can't able to express it before him then you can impress that person by helping him in the time of need.so this step works as a magical trick. Because when we are available with anyone when he needs someone then it makes a Bonafide connection between both of the person.
-Make him/her happy:
Everyone in this world wants themselves happy and enjoying. Even a richest person wants happiness in lieu of his monetary assets . And why not after all happiness is a precious asset for every one. So if you love someone it's your first and foremost priority to make that person happy every time no matter he is with you or not. The thing that matters is that when he find himself happy with you he automatically wish to be you and want to be more happy.
-Just listen every single saying:
Sometimes when we are with someone and he is saying something to you but you are not listening properly. Then it may make others irritated and sense of sidelines. So if you are with your love interest then make him realise that how cautiously and attentively you are listening his sayings. That gives a good impression before someone. He may himself want to talk to every time because you are the one who listen him with that activeness.
-Protective:
Its true that a person can protect himself easily but sometimes we can't able to protect ourselves either physically or mentally. So be a person in his/her life who always takes stand for him before anyone or before society. Stand with him before social taboos or illogical thoughts of society. It also takes you a step forward with that person. And who knows due to that you may stand with him for lifetime. Just imagine about that. Protect him without any type of show-off.
-Career oriented:
Love is something but not everything. If you love someone that's not enough you should be career oriented also. Everyone wants a partner who supports him in his career and studies. So act as like the desired person. Trust me if you are succeed in doing so then that person himself wants to be with you. You don't need to do any other efforts.
-Do things for him/her that you generally not do:
Love is the other name of making sacrifices and compromises. I m not saying that you also do so . But sometimes due to distinct human Nature and personality we all have slight variations in our likes and dislikes, thoughts and thinking. So you may sometimes had to do those activities which you might not like or you don't wanted to do them. But if you will do that for that person to make him happy that means a lot for your love.
-Caring:
It is an old saying that sharing is caring. Don't panic I will not say to share something . I m just saying that caring is most relevant thing that make you special for someone. If you love someone you automatically do care for him/ her. Its not a sense of possessiveness or obsession. But it's something that show that how much you are effected when that special person is not with you. It shows that how much he matters for you. You are happy when he is with you. And who one don't like a caring person after all.
-Be childish with him/her in childish activities:
If you love someone who used to do childish activities then you can also be with him in his childish and joyful acts. This generates a sense of belonging and friendly touch.
-Don't be forceful:
If you have feelings for someone then you can't expect that he/she also feels the same thing for you. It is not necessary. So you just wait for acceptance of other party. The thing that you can do is that you can only do some activities that give a good impression to that person. By observing your Bonafide intentions it may be possible that he may himself feel for you. But don't make blunders and wrongful acts in order get someone's attention. You can't force that person to be with you.
-Cook something delicious:
When you cook something for someone it makes him feel special and Adorable. So you can also impress him/her by your unique cooking recipes and offering a delicious dinner.
-Cute and unique proposal:
When you feel that things are going in your side then don't wait for anything just propose him/her in a sweet manner. Tell what you feel about him. Tell that you want to be with him/her. Don't hesitate in saying anything. You can propose with a sweet gift or some flowers bouquet or on a romantic date.
Conclusion:
Remember one thing that you can't force someone to love you if he/she already engaged with someone else. You can just express your feelings before someone whom you love. It mainly depends on him that he will accept your proposal or not.
If he accepted it then it's good for you but in case of rejection you just firmly accept that. But you don't have any such right to be forceful or misbehaving with him after that. The above given tips works when you follow them before proposing someone. They just increase the chances of your acceptance by your love .
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